{"id":69,"date":"2021-02-15T16:04:07","date_gmt":"2021-02-15T16:04:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/point200.com\/?p=69"},"modified":"2021-02-15T16:09:21","modified_gmt":"2021-02-15T16:09:21","slug":"curating-your-guest-list","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/point200.com\/?p=69","title":{"rendered":"Curating Your Guest List"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"http:\/\/clients.point200.com\/kehoe\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"499\" src=\"https:\/\/point200.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Screen-Shot-2021-02-15-at-11.01.16-AM-1024x499.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-73\" srcset=\"https:\/\/point200.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Screen-Shot-2021-02-15-at-11.01.16-AM-1024x499.png 1024w, https:\/\/point200.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Screen-Shot-2021-02-15-at-11.01.16-AM-300x146.png 300w, https:\/\/point200.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Screen-Shot-2021-02-15-at-11.01.16-AM-768x374.png 768w, https:\/\/point200.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Screen-Shot-2021-02-15-at-11.01.16-AM.png 1252w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Making decisions about your guest list can be an intricate process and one that will depend largely on your venue and budget. Take some time to sit down with your partner to put together a wish list of wedding guests. Once you have this wish list made and begin thinking more about your budget, you\u2019ll more than likely need to make some cuts.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are some considerations to help decide who to cross off the list:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em><strong>Relatives you haven\u2019t seen in years<\/strong><\/em><br>This can be hard and I\u2019m sure your mom or dad won\u2019t entirely love this idea, but your wedding is about you and your loved one &#8211; it is not a family reunion. Have a discussion with both your partner and key family members about where to draw the line in terms of extended family.<br><\/li><li><em><strong>Old friends you are no longer close with<\/strong><\/em><br>Although this person may have been your friend at one point in your life, if you\u2019ve grown apart and have not spoken in quite some time; it is not worth adding them to the list. There won\u2019t be enough time to catch up with them during your wedding night, and let\u2019s be honest, do you really want to focus on what someone else has been up to for the last few years on one of the biggest nights of your life?<br><\/li><li><em><strong>Co-workers<\/strong><br><\/em>If you only see your co-workers around the office and your partner has never met them, maybe consider crossing them off the list. If you have a little wiggle room at the end for a few more additions, then you might be able to still invite your 9-5 acquaintances.&nbsp;<br><\/li><li><em><strong>Plus-ones and children<\/strong><\/em><br>Consistency is key when allowing plus-ones and children at your wedding. Have you met your guest\u2019s significant other? Have they been dating for 6 months+? Having a system in place for determining a plus-one will relieve the feeling of needing to give every single guest a plus-one, because you definitely don\u2019t want to look back at your wedding photos to see a room full of people you barely know.<br><br>A good rule of thumb if you don\u2019t want children at your wedding is to implement a cut-off age. Allowing ages 14+ at your wedding might be a good way to avoid inconsistencies and guests getting upset that their young ones cannot attend.&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><br>Another tip to consider when making your guest list is to color code the spreadsheet. His family, her family, hometown friends, co-workers, college friends, distant relatives. This will make your list easier to sift through to see who you might have forgotten and who is really important to you. Creating a visual reference for each group can also help when it comes time to create a seating chart so that you can seat groups with each other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Finally! Remember that this day is about celebrating YOU, so when it comes down to it, make sure you are surrounding yourself with the people that you love most. And if you happen to be planning a wedding during COVID, take this even more into consideration and possibly offer a virtual option for older relatives that might not be able to make it. (COVID might actually benefit you from a narrowing-down-the-list standpoint if you aren\u2019t sure how to tell your mother that her best friend\u2019s sister won\u2019t make the cut).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Make sure you are surrounding yourself with the people that you love most on your wedding day.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":73,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[47],"tags":[44,27,43,46,9],"class_list":["post-69","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guest-list","tag-budget","tag-guest","tag-list","tag-spreadsheet","tag-venue"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v15.7 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Curating Your Guest List - Blog<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/point200.com\/?p=69\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Curating Your Guest List - Blog\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Make sure you are surrounding yourself with the people that you love most on your wedding day.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/point200.com\/?p=69\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Blog\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2021-02-15T16:04:07+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2021-02-15T16:09:21+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/point200.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Screen-Shot-2021-02-15-at-11.01.16-AM-1024x499.png\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Est. reading time\">\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"3 minutes\">\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/point200.com\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/point200.com\/\",\"name\":\"Blog\",\"description\":\"Our best wedding tips &amp; 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